Do you know how snow-dust sparkles? I never knew—until yesterday.
If it is a sunny day, like the ones we’ve been having lately, then winter dances and pierces and sweeps through the senses.
Those snowflakes didn’t just flutter down. They swirled and twirled and whirled like magic. Crisp. Gleaming. White.
Pure white—but sometimes, when the sun’s reflection bounces off of icicles and snow-dust, suddenly, one sees vibrant colors. It is ten degrees below freezing point—and yet, walking through the woods, I feel warmth.
This month, the start of the New Year, I am doing lots of celebrating—a magical winter spell sets off the perfect mood; I gaze at the way sharp shadows of light strike the snow at 11 o’clock.
Did you get to celebrate something today?
Celebration isn’t always fireworks, candles and cake. Sometimes, celebration is simply being thankful. It’s acknowledging. It’s saying, “Yes, this is where I am meant to be, and I’m going to make the most of it.”
Celebration can also be commemorating: observing, honoring, and remembering.
I am honoring my daughter’s first babbles, her awkward “dance” (bouncing) every time she hears the sound of music, and the murmuring exhale she grunts when I tell her she’s eaten quite enough today.
I am remembering the squishy sound of my son’s gummistiefels as he sloshes through every muddy pile of melting ice.
And the way his concerned four-year-old voice pierces my train of thought loudly:
“Mom, the baby’s alive!”
(He means, she’s woken up—I must get back to mommy-work.)
So I’ll be realistic too. Not every moment is met with joy. There is the mundane, day to day that being a mother requires: endless nappy changes, dishes to wash and little people to keep happy and well-fed. Trips to the doctor’s office, meeting with the school principal, laundry to sort, hang, and fold. And always, a floor of toys to sweep.
And maybe, that’s why we need to celebrate the special moments more. Even the ones we think aren’t quite that special.
I take this 3-kilometer walk every day to pick up my son from school. The same routine. My fingers are frozen as we trudge through the show. But I try to make each day on the same route a new experience.
The sunlight’s glint is never exactly as it was yesterday; the village sounds are never just the same. On some days, I find horse-riders trotting through the streets; other times, snow-sweeping tractors plowing through the neighbor’s gardens.
I’ll admit, it wasn’t always so for me. With my first pregnancy, I was also in this same village, and I felt cold, and isolated, and bored.
It was a new experience in a foreign country (a new continent!), and I’d had all the usual moods a pregnant woman goes through. Not used to eat cold herring and schwarzbrot for dinner, I craved the warmth of tropical islands, the chaotic mess of the city. And oh, yes, I missed speaking English with other people!
It wasn’t easy, that first long winter, before my son was born. And of course, the days following, as a new mom, were even tougher.
But this time around, I’m getting a second chance at choosing: choosing joy over self-absorbedness, artistic expression over boredom. Choosing to see the sun through the shadows, to notice the way nature unfolds, envelops, and captivates. Choosing to appreciate and reciprocate the love of my family here, who care for us so well.
As I walk the same snow-swept paths along the edge of this Eastern German forest trail, I’m glad to be just where I am today.
Sometimes, my daughter is fast asleep in her stroller, and other times, she is wide awake.
Wide awake, I’ve realized, is how I want to be.
Exploring the world with the senses I’ve had all these years, but now finding new ways to use them.
Finding new ways to come alive.
Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul.